my take. you’re level 30 but your build seems to be a jack of all trades build where you want a little bit of everything.
what this ends up doing is you ARE able to do a little bit of everything but you are NOT GOOD at any of them.
games like this usually reward players for focusing on one aspect rather than multiple.
currently you have “good” defence. but that is actually a bane. you have TOO MUCH defence.
NRFTW is mainly a skill based game where good gear helps you either clear encounters faster or allows you to make more mistakes.
i can confidently tell you that i struggled a huge lot with many bosses. its a huge pain. but i learned how to identify the best times to attack.
i think one way you can improve your experience is to decide which you like better. melee attacks or relying on skills that use focus.
personally i entirely ditched any idea of using focus and just use melee. this way i would dedicate my gear to get stamina efficiency/regeneration. during boss battles, i would never have to remember “oh my focus is full, i should use my skill or else it’s wasted”. instead i would focus on seeing what the boss is doing and simply slapping the boss with my weapon until he dies. focus/skills become a distraction/fomo when you’re in the heat of combat.
next i would highlight the importance of running and dodging. parrying tho cool and can be rewarding is a HUGE RISK. the boss sometimes attacks you relentlessly so blocking can become a bad option. timing your dashes/dodges is much more lenient compared to parrying. as for running. movespeed is king. sometimes its better to just run out of the attack range rather than dashing. also if you dashed away from an attack, having high movespeed allows you to get back into the boss’s face ASAP.
do not ever be too greedy with your attacks. sometimes chipping at an enemy’s heath can be better than doing a lot of damage but having to heal up after the boss slapped you back. and at worse, if he killed you, all the hard work you put before that is lost.
1000 dps is 0 dps when you’re dead.
next is your level of commitment. your gear is a little on the safe side. all “blues”. purple items can have detriments but there are ways to negate the detriments.
i think by level 30 you NEED to learn to craft your gear. and you need to start farming for resources.
for starters always look for purple gear. NOT blue. purple gear can roll higher numbers. keep ANY purple gear with 5 enchantments. then use embers to reroll each enchantment to something that you actually want.
take detriments that dont affect you. for example in my case i dont use focus, so i can take stuff that penalizes my focus. but if you dont mind losing an enchantment, you can roll “cannot be repaired”, and roll an enchantment where the item becomes indestructable.
the last thing i would say is something you wouldnt like to hear.
you need to restart a new character. your current one has stats all over the place. your damage output will suffer as a result. lower damage means longer fights. longer fights means the boss will have more chances at damaging you. if you have more DPS, you still CAN take damage, but when the fight is shorter, the amount of mistakes you will do can be reduced. theres no use being able to last a boss fight for 10 minutes if all you’re doing is just healing up.
i saw you ranted about how respecs are gated behind some end game content. i agree with you entirely. it punishes players for trying their own thing/going in blind. but until the devs decide to change this system. the only choice you have now are either respeccing (difficult for you) or simply rerolling.
if i were you, i would reroll.
also with the knowledge i have, one thing i do in this game is OVERLEVEL and farm gear. how i do that is i will keep replaying the first portion of the game over and over again. where i have one “main realm” and i create many new realms to farm xp and materials. i usually will buy whatever weapon/gear i want from the blacksmith. kill the “first boss” then restart. if my inventory is full i will then go back to my main realm to enchant all the gear that i bought (all normal with no enchants).
i do hope the devs just give us an easy way to respec tho